There is probably nothing more frustrating about women than finding out that doing what they want, is not what they want. When it comes to romance, your favorite female wants you to surprise her by getting her what she really wants. Just don’t ask her what that is.
‘What are you getting mom for Valentines?’, my twin girls asked the other night. They appeared in front of the couch, blocking the TV, in a casual way that guaranteed they were going to take this information directly back to the source of the question.
‘What do you think she’d like?’ I asked, trying to remember how many days I had to come up with an answer. The girls looked at each other, then at me.
‘Something special’, they said. ‘Not just chocolates again’
They were referring to the one year, which shall never be forgotten, that Dad went all out and brought home about nine different kinds of chocolates. In the store, it seemed like a great idea. I imagined her being surrounded, and luxurious. She imagined I’d scooped the entire closeout candy shelf into the cart at the last minute to avoid getting a real gift. Alright, so I’d had to work late and couldn’t think of anything else.
‘Ok’, I said, trying to see around them to the screen, ‘no chocolate this year.’ They looked at each other again.
‘You have to get her chocolate, Dad’, they whispered. They had that look like they would just like to reach out and slap the side of my head, if they dared.
‘She doesn’t like when I give her candy’, I reminded them, very quietly. ‘ She says it makes her…clothes too tight’. This got big eyes and open mouths at each other, and then they ran off. What a report that was going to make. I’ll really have to pull one off this year.
If you’re hunting for something for Valentine’s gifts, remember that chocolate is almost always expected as part of the festivities. And for that special Valentine chocolate gift, the most important thing to remember is, keep it romantic. The following are actual chocolate gifts that should NOT be on your list. Unless this is what she really wants.
1. Chocolate Perfume Ok, you’re thinking you can take care of the proverbial two birds with this stone. It’s chocolate, and it’s perfume. It’s got no calories. It’s pretty cheap compared to what you find in Macy’s. So, why not make some hubcap earrings to go with it?
3. Chocolate Ammo It comes in it’s own ammo tin, it’s .50 caliber, and the only question you should have if this is your gift of choice is whether there actually is something more to life than hunting.
4. Anatomically Correct Chocolate Heart Maybe you were thinking, well, no, actually, you couldn’t have been thinking if you ordered this. Does the word ‘creepy’ come up often in your relationship? It will.
Now, get out there and get her something she really wants. And if you figure out what, please, let me know.